Monday, March 1, 2010

Doing Hard Things for the Glory of God

Today I spent my lunch at Starbucks reading a book that a publisher sent me to review. The main point the authors make is that Christian teenagers do not need to fit into the society norm that says they aren’t worth much, nor is much expected of them until they are adults. This book wants the next generation to know that their life matters and that they can already do, and should already be doing, hard things for the Glory of God.

Sitting next to me were a couple of young men who are the target audience of this book. They each had a thick book titled Intro to Biblical Greek along with an accompanying “See Dick Run” workbook that had pages of blank lines for practicing writing their Greek letters. I couldn’t help but overhear their discussion as they compared their scrawls.

“The NIV is a bad translation. It grieves me that people use this translation when the study the words of God.”

“Why?”

“Well, I’ve heard our leaders say it is misleading. People need to know the original language.”

“Ya, the word translated for flesh is supposed to be all wrong.”

“Where did you hear that?”

“Bible College, right before I graduated.”

“Cool. “

“Ya, Glory to God.”

“Yep. Glory to God.”


They make a notation on their papers that look like the symbol for Pie.

“Hey Look! Isn’t that Jared?”

“Yep. He survives on coffee with all he does at the church. I’m not surprised to see him here.”

They wave him over.

“Hey guys how are you doing?"

“Great!” they echo each other.

“How are you doing?”

“Well the wife’s sick so I’m bringing her some juice from the Jungle place next door. Thought I better get charged up too.”

“So how’s the website coming, Jared?”


Awkward pause.

“Well, it’s okay… Glory to God, but we’ve got a lot of work to do on it. You know that Pastor wants us to totally redo the site every year so that it remains relevant in our culture and draws people into the Kingdom.”

“Of course!” they echo. “Glory to God!”


Jared leaves and they go back to their Greek. I try to focus on the book in front of me. I read the following.
The best question to ask right at the beginning is “why are we doing hard things?” When we remember that we’re doing hard things to glorify God and become more of who he created us to be, it puts the “How do I start?” question into a different light.
Though I understand what the authors were trying to say, the thought of “becoming more of who he created us to be” sounds a bit strange- like striving to be something I’m really not.

Their conversation has continued. Now they are talking about revival.

“You know that a revival never lasts more than a generation?”

“Why is that?”

“God always wants to show up in a fresh way to each generation – as long as it fits in with scripture, Glory to God.”

“That makes sense. That is why our church is struggling.”

“Yep. They keep trying to pass down what God told them in their day to us in ours. It doesn’t fit and it isn’t their job to do that.”

“No wonder there is tension.”


This is getting interesting and I about fall over as I lean their way.

“That is why we have got to get our act together and prove ourselves so we can have fresh revelation for today and start a new revival!”

I sigh despairingly, loud enough for them both to look over. I’m too old to be relevant so they turn back to their coloring books.

Well, I probably should get going. I have small group tonight.”

“Again?”

“Ya, I’m in four different groups, Monday through Thursday. Its hard sometimes, but I just really need Bible study and fellowship, you know what I mean?”

“Yep, Glory to God.”

“Glory to God.”

I look down at the book in my hands. I know there is value in these pages, words that could motivate the complacent into action. But as I consider the frenzied nature at the table next to me I’m doubting that God is really getting very much glory from all their hard things. I think what he really wants to communicate to this generation is that he loves them.

There is one last pause as they finish up their homework.

"You are quiet."

"I'm just thinking."

"About what?"

"Just thoughts. Random."

"Ya?"

"More than anything, I think I'm really tired."

"Ya..."


What do you think? Do we miss what God really wants to have with us by trying to do too much for him?

17 comments:

  1. Those were some of the thoughts I had when I was reading through that book as well, Chad. But I did have conflicting thoughts, because I know that often times us younger people are told we shouldn't be given responsibility until we've got the degrees or the experience, that we can't be leaders or bring anything of value until later in life. So it is an interesting tension there. I always think of the disciples and how Jesus had faith in them, even though they were blundering, inexperienced youngsters. And you make a great point- Paul talks about how we can be so busy making noise, but without love, it's nothing. It's interesting to ask the question if Paul meant that in two ways: not only our love toward others, but maybe if we don't understand God's love for us, we're spinning our wheels.

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  2. Good stuff, Cody. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I am actually reading the follow up book which is a series of stories, testimonies and ideas on how to go about doing those hard things.

    I do like inspiration, and when the book and the stories work in that way, I'm encouraged. I very much think their heart is to empower. And unfortunately we often take those messages of empowerment and overplay them into something they aren't meant to be. Honestly the guys next to me today exhausted me. There was so much striving and it didn't look like good fruit.

    Just processing out loud. Thanks for being a great sounding board.

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  3. The random whacked out guys at Starbucks are burning lots of energy and have questionable theology. Didn't we all follow after God with that kind of foolish hot in love with Jesus zealousness when we were young?

    Jesus prefers it to lukewarm hearts with great theology.

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  4. It seems to me (and I'm as guilty of this as the guys at the next table) that sometimes we get hung up on doing all this stuff to look the part that we lose sight of who we are doing it for. I've had to learn over time that when I've stacked the deck with all sorts of activities that are supposed to glorify God, all I was doing was glorifying me. In all the busyness, I didn't have time to build relationships (with God or others) even though I was involved in all of those relationship building activities. That was not pursuing the Father's heart. And I'm all for youthful zeal (I really miss it!) but David captured our Papa's heart long before he slew Goliath. While he was tending sheep with everything he had in him and being who he was meant to be is what captured God's heart. There was no pretense in him and I think that is what pleases God. That is just my take, second hand and removed from the situation, for what it's worth.

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  5. You've really articulated much of my thoughts when I saw the book. Thank you for this perspective, Chad!

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  6. Anonymous, I like what you shared. Thanks. :)

    I think that it comes down to heart motivations. If we are doing what we do because we think God needs us to do what it is we're doing... Well, that's like thinking God needs our money. (In the words of Dave Ramsey, "God NEEDS your money? HA HA HA!")

    But, I know that many on fire believers do much, and often, because they can't help themselves. It's not because God needs them to... It's because they just HAVE to. Have to keep serving, have to keep gathering, have to keep studying... It's a drive from within, and I think it is seasonal, yet not necessarily related to age (even the youth get tired and faint...).

    I do believe that there are seasons of great activity and seasons of quiet rest, and we need to be sensitive to those seasons (and also understand that our seasons don't all line up to each other's neatly). The Law seemed to touch on this regularly, the Sabbath, the years to leave the ground alone, etc.

    Times of movement, times of stillness.

    We need to embrace both, and understand that one might be in a different season than another.

    The thing that most frustrates me right now about all Christians on any side of any debate is the incessant need to put a "one size fits all" glove on everyone else. Books yelling, "Get up!" or "Stay down!" or "Save your generation!" or "Leave your generation alone!"

    If we each, personally, have access to the Father through His Son, Jesus Christ, will He not speak to us, personally, what we need to hear? I long for the day when Christian leaders more emphatically persist in pushing their listeners to get connected to Christ, personally. The Maker of the Seasons will be sure to inform you which season you are in...

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  7. Don't you feel sometimes these college youth are going to many different small groups and meetings trying to be so spiritual. They are spiritually worthless to the kingdom. To busy listening to small group leaders without taking time to listen to God?
    What do you think Captain?

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  8. Brandon,

    I like much of what you shared, but I don't think that motivation is the grading point for taking action. The crusades had good motivation behind them but it didn't make them healthy. Motivation, drive, ambition for the Kingdom, doing hard things for God- whatever you want to call it, needs to be carefully evaluated. Because if Love isn't the fuel it will quickly go astray.

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  9. Anon - I think busyness for the Kingdom is a type of spiritual steroid. It pumps you up, but doesn't actually give you natural growth. It will actually shrink your spiritual reproductive organs and make it difficult to father real disciples.

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  10. Brandon, I don't think I've jumped down anybody's throat here. I simply shared parts of an overheard conversation, a quote from a book, and made an observation from my perspective.

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  11. Chad, I'd argue that motivation is in fact the grading point for action, and I'd suggest that you support that with this statement, "...if Love isn't the fuel it will quickly go astray." I guess my point is, if God's Love isn't the motivation, too, there is no point, period.

    I would also suggest that the Crusades had nothing to do about love, and everything to do about politics.

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  12. "I don't think I've jumped down anybody's throat here."

    I didn't use very good terminology there. My apologies. My point very simply is, I personally believe we could make more friends and find greater relationship in the Body of Christ if we didn't have such a need to critique each other's walk with Christ.

    I guess I'm just *that guy*, who always finds the need to defend the subject of someone's thoughts.

    It is my gift, it is my curse. :)

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  13. Chad, you seem very alert to performance in yourself and those around you. I can honestly say I struggle with the same issue. Jesus isn't calling us to a role. He's calling us into intimate relationship with him. What you might want to consider is that he is perfectly capable of fulfilling his purposes in us, even when we start out in the performance. Since those guys in the coffee shop are my brothers instead of criticizing them I'd like to encourage them to really listen as they work on their workbooks, pray that God would keep it from becoming a mere academic exercise and speak to their hearts through their study.
    I don't know about the book you read. I've never seen it. But I would love to see young men studying God's word in a coffee shop. :) Have a great day and happy reading!!

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  14. I have been working in ministry a long time. I have seen tons of people leave the ministry, then the church, then the faith altogether. One thing almost all of them had in common was burn out. They worked hard and then became very frustrated with the abuse of others in the church compounded with a complete lack of self care. I think one of the great lies of the church today is that despite being saved by grace-many seem to work harder in an effort to please God. Church and study become proofs of our sincerity. Bernard of Clairveaux talks of four degrees of love: Love of Self for Self's Sake, Love of God for Self's sake, Love of God for God's sake, and Love of Self for God's sake. In essence this talks about our motivation. We start loving God for purely selfish reasons. I believe we work so hard to please God because we lack confidence in his love. It is only when we truly learn faith in God's goodness (Love of God for God's sake) that we love him for who he is and receive his love without fear of rejection (Love of self for God's sake). I think far more Christians could avoid doing "Work" for God, by truly believing that God loves them right where they are at already. This is where true service is born.

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  15. The previous posts by Anonymous and also Amy Andrews are written better than anything I could say. Thanks to both of you it gave me alot to think about today!:)
    I would never feel it my place to put rules on those guys in the coffee shop about how they are not doing it right.

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  16. Hey Amy,

    Thanks for what you shared. Good observation- I am alert to the performance issue, and for good reason, I am very proficient with it. I've also experienced what it ends up costing in the long run.

    I didn't feel the need to correct or criticize the guys at the coffee shop. I don't have the relationship with them to put feedback with them into a loving, meaningful context. You can bet that I did pray though, especially when the one admitted he was tired. It broke my heart.

    You make a great point about God being able to break through the performance and get to the heart issues. I also think it is within our best interest as the Body of Christ to dialog about what is working and what isn't working for us. That was what this post was meant to be, my inner musings as I read one thing and experienced another right beside me. Maybe it will be worthwhile for one of my friends who is wrestling with this issue and might a different way of looking at things through this discussion.

    Thanks again to what you brought to the table.

    (You too, Dave, even though you posted Anonymously ;-)

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  17. As a rather lazy person, I actually enjoyed Do Hard Things when I read it awhile back. It's possible that I'd feel differently about it now, but I still found the book and it's call to make your life more very interesting. I never thought about the performance angle, at the time I was surrounded by teenagers who seemed to have no consideration for anyone else and was rather hoping they'd do something worthwhile as well.
    It could be argued though, that while doing hard things won't make God love you any more or less, it will probably make you feel better about yourself.

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